Winter, you either love it or you hate it. If you don’t enjoy winter time, you’re definitely not alone. The colder months, especially the holidays, can be very difficult for some people. Along with the freezing temperature comes daylight savings time ending, dangerous driving conditions from the snow, the stress and often times grief for loved ones during the holidays, increased isolation, and most people become more sedentary during the winter months.
You’d be surprised at just how many people deal with some or all of these consequences of winter time. The sad truth is, many people struggle with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), which is a type of depression related to the changes in seasons. According to Boston University, an estimated 10 million Americans are affected by SAD, with women more likely to be affected.
If you struggle with SAD or you find your depression worsens in the winter, know that you’re certainly not alone. One of the best ways to combat SAD, along with therapy or medication if needed, is to practice self-care. When I say self-care, I don’t mean just doing some quick retail therapy, I mean putting into practice actual habits that in the long run will make a significant difference in your mood and your life.
Without further ado, let’s get into some ways to truly take care of yourself this winter.
1. Begin a Journal
Emotions and fears can be difficult to manage on your own. The thoughts and feelings seem to swirl around in your head with no outlet. That’s why giving your brain a safe channel into dealing with those feelings is important, and journaling can be that outlet for you.
Ending your days by writing out a page on how you feel, how your day went, your current fears and wants, etc. can help your brain process and better understand your emotions. Not to mention, when you’re having racing thoughts or unwanted feelings that you simply can’t stop thinking about, putting everything down on paper and out of your head can help give you a sense of relief, even if it’s for a short while.
Always remember that with journaling, you should try to be as consistent as possible. This way your brain is getting a much needed exit each day, and over time it can add up to less stress and a better way to regulate your emotions. If you miss a day or two, don’t be too hard on yourself, but try to make a conscious effort to take ten minutes for yourself each day to write your journal entry.
2. Eat Healthy
Does your diet really matter when it comes to mental health? Absolutely. Believe it or not, but your gut and your brain are actually connected, meaning what you eat effects what your brain does. More and more, researchers are finding that irritation in your GI system can send signals to your nervous system that trigger mood changes.
Eating foods that are highly processed and have a high sugar content can lead to inflammation throughout your body and in your brain, which in turn puts stress on the brain potentially leading to a number of mood disorders like anxiety and depression.
Basically, eating nutrient dense foods can have a positive effect on your mental health. Your gut needs good bacteria in it in order to be healthy and send those good signals to your brain. So what are the best foods you can eat for a healthy gut? According to Sutter Health, the best things you can eat for a better brain and gut are complex carbohydrates like starchy vegetables, fiber-rich fruits, and grains like quinoa. Lean proteins like chicken, fish, and eggs are also essential, as well as fatty acids that can be found in fish and nuts.
One of my favorite things to eat when I feel like I need a healthy brain boost is an acai bowl from Better Blend. Their bowls are packed with fresh fruits, filled with vitamins and antioxidants, and then topped with yummy and nutritious toppings like pecans, granola, and organic honey. The bowls are a really delicious way for me to know I’m getting a meal that incorporates the good food my brain and gut needs.
Remember that eating a healthy diet doesn’t mean you can never have fries or chips again, it simply means that you make an effort to eat those highly processed foods in moderation. This winter, try to give your gut and brain a break and get creative in the kitchen making some truly healthy meals.
3. Practice Gratitude
It may sound cheesy, but being grateful can actually make you a happier person and improve your mental health. Around the holidays is when most people think about what their thankful for in their lives. But there’s a difference between thinking about things you’re grateful for just in the weeks of Thanksgiving and Christmas and actually practicing gratitude.
Gratitude is “the quality of being thankful”, but practicing gratitude is training yourself to call out and notice the wonderful things you have in your life each day and then acknowledging how appreciative you are for them. Practicing gratitude has been proven to help your mood, because expressing gratitude releases dopamine and serotonin in the brain, making us feel better mentally. If you want to dive deeper into how gratitude can improve your mental health you can check out this study done by the American Psychological Association, and this study done by the Department of Clinical Psychology at Shiraz University.
Essentially, practicing gratitude each day helps your brain to form new positive pathways to think about your life, which in the long term could reframe the lens you look at the world through in a more optimistic and joyful way. There are several ways to put gratitude into practice. My personal favorite way is to jot down 10 things I’m grateful for in my life every day, and then reflect on how much those things mean to me. You can use a blank journal to do this, and just set aside 5 or 10 minutes a day to practice gratitude.
I will say that in the short time I’ve been doing this, I’ve started to see improvements in how I think and feel each day, and how I’m getting slowly better at regulating my emotions. Practicing gratitude takes only a few minutes a day, but it can have lasting positive effects on your mood.
4. Take a Walk
I know it sucks to walk when it’s freezing cold outside, but walking can actually help benefit your mental health. Taking a walk each day, especially a walk out in nature, can have a powerful impact on both your mental and physical health. Walking gives your mind a much needed moment to rest and relax, plus, being active, even if it’s walking, can help reduce unwanted stress and anxiety.
The benefits of walking have been heavily researched and proved by scientists, if you want to know more about how walking can have a significant impact on your mental health; you can check out this study done by The University of Mississippi and this study conducted by York University. In the winter, most of us are cozied up in our homes by the fireplace, but staying in day after day can become tiring and cause cabin fever. Walking gives your body and mind a change of scenery, which is important for anyone.
Personally, I think the best way to get your walk in during the winter is to pick a time during your day where you feel the most drained. Then, bundle up to make sure you won’t be too cold, and walk outside for about 15 minutes without your phone or any distractions; focus your attention on the scenery in front of you and appreciate the beauty of it all.
During my walks, it also helps me to actively notice the cold air I’m breathing in and I then try to think of things that I truly admire about my life and my surroundings. I know it might be hard to imagine, but who knows, you may come to look forward to your winter walks!
5. Get Enough Z’s
It might seem obvious, but getting enough sleep is so important for a healthy body and mind. The fact is that being sleep deprived can have an effect on your mental health. Unfortunately, individuals who have conditions like depression and anxiety are more likely to have sleep problems, that’s why it’s so important to practice good sleeping habits if you suffer from SAD, depression, anxiety, or all three.
Some of the most effective ways to combat depression related sleeping issues I’ve personally found is: turning on a white noise machine during the night, going to sleep at the same time each day, stop using a smartphone an hour before bedtime, exercise some time during the day, using an essential oil diffuser in my bedroom, and finally, sleeping in a cold room.
Even though it’s winter time, don’t be afraid to turn your thermostat down a few notches when it’s time for bed. Sleeping in a cool room can have awesome benefits for you, it helps you fall asleep quicker and improve the quality of that sleep, a cold room also helps to improve your melatonin levels, and with melatonin being linked to serotonin, sleeping in a cool room may enhance your mood overall.
I know how frustrating it can be to not get enough sleep when you already feel drained. But get into the habit of making a relaxing bedtime routine and sticking to it even when you feel like it isn’t working. Eventually you may find that both your sleep and your mood increase for the better.
6. Consider Therapy
Don’t knock it till you try it. I’m a huge believer that therapy can be beneficial to anyone, regardless of if they struggle with SAD, depression, or anxiety. The fact is, as humans, we all have difficult times in our lives where we could use some extra help. Therapy gives you a safe, and confidential outlet to really talk through how you’re feeling.
The winter time brings about a lot of memories and emotions for people. Some individuals adore the holidays and the cold, but for many people the holidays and colder months bring up a lot of sad feelings and thoughts. Whether it’s the first Christmas without a loved one, the overwhelming stress of the holidays, or feeling particularly alone during the cold period; there are a multitude of reasons why someone could really struggle during winter.
The bright side is, there is absolutely help, and you do not have to hurt alone. Therapy is a healthy release for depressed and anxious thoughts and feelings. In therapy you can talk in depth about how you feel, and in turn get clinical input, advice, and learn coping skills on how to improve your emotions and thought patterns. Therapists help to guide you in processing your SAD, depression, or anxiety in a healthy way.
Your options when it comes to therapy is plenty. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Mindfulness Therapy are a few popular forms of therapy, but the options are endless. If you want to know more about all the types of therapy offered you can click
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If you haven’t considered therapy due to the cost, you can have faith that there are free and low-cost therapy options available to you. If you’re a student, most colleges and universities offer free counseling services for anyone enrolled in classes. If you’re not a student, there are free or low cost therapies and groups around you that you can easily apply for. If you live in Hamilton county, the Recovery Center of Hamilton County has both online and in-person classes and group therapies that are completely free. Just a few of their groups include: Self-Compassion Group, PTSD & Recovery Group, and Bipolar and Depression Support.
If group therapy isn’t your thing, Community First Behavioral Health- Hamilton and North Key Community Care in Florence, KY offers low cost individual therapy to qualifying people. Another thing to keep in mind is that often times virtual counseling can cost significantly less than in-person, Better Help is a fully online therapy platform where sessions typically cost between 60 and 90 dollars, cutting the normal price of individual therapy by about 60%.
7. Socialize (even when you don’t want to)
Humans are social creatures by nature, which might be a disappointment to those with social anxiety like myself but it’s absolutely true. Often times when people struggle with their mental health, they tend to isolate and avoid doing things they used to enjoy, like going out with family or friends.
While it may be difficult to get yourself out and about feeling so low, if anything, spending time with others can help you to feel less alone, even if you aren’t directly discussing your mental health. The benefits of socialization are many, spending time with supportive individuals can help lower your stress levels, decrease depression and anxiety symptoms, and ultimately help improve your overall life satisfaction.
In a study done by Colorado State University, they found that people with greater depression symptoms viewed their lives, and felt, more satisfied and meaningful when they had more positive social interactions. The clinical study also found that depressed individuals felt more content with their lives when they felt a sense of “belonging”. Often times belonging is the human emotional need to feel loved and accepted by others; whether that’s by family, friends, religion, or co-workers. In order to really find that sense of belonging, socialization is needed in some way or another even though it can be challenging.
8. Admire Yourself
During one of my recent therapy sessions, we discussed the importance of positive self-talk, and how increasing your self-esteem may help with depression and anxiety. This topic really got me to contemplate about how I think and how I treat myself in my own head. It made me ask questions like: would I talk to a friend the way I talk to myself? or would I want to even spend time with someone who belittled me like I do myself each day? Probably not.
This is important because you spend 24 hours a day and 7 days a week with yourself; making an effort to boost your self-esteem is crucial. When we learn to really love ourselves, we often strive for an overall better life with happier relationships and experiences. It’s difficult to know where exactly to start when it comes to building our own self-esteem, since people with SAD, depression or anxiety are often more self-critical than others. My therapist encouraged me to write down ten things I like about myself every day in an effort to acquire higher self-esteem. The first time I did it, I couldn’t even think of five things I really valued about myself, but after sitting down and doing it a few times, I began to see more things that I admired about myself, and you will too.
Recognize the way you’re thinking and talking to yourself, would you speak that way to a dear friend going through a similar struggle? Hopefully not. The same compassion you would show a friend or family member is the same compassion you should show yourself. It’s certainly easier said than done for someone who is really struggling, but be persistent and recognize those self-critical tendencies or negative thinking and stop them in their tracks.
If you want to learn more about negative thinking patterns and how to combat them, click here.
9. Do Random Acts of Kindness
Helping others can actually help you. It always feels good to help someone in need or be the reason that someone smiled. But doing something positive for others doesn’t just make you feel good, it also can help improve depression and anxiety symptoms. According to Dr. Lyubomirsky of the University of California, positive activities, like helping others, primarily cultivates positive emotions and helps build personal strengths.
In other words, doing random acts of kindness can be an effective, and low-cost treatment for depressive symptoms. Doing things to help others can add positivity and feel-good emotions to your day-to-day life. Helping someone may seem small, but doing it often can add real happiness and benefit to how you feel.
Some easy ways to help others in a small way that could leave a big impact are: paying for the person behind you in the drive-thru line, leave an encouraging post-it note in a random place, or volunteer at a local homeless or animal shelter; volunteers are always needed at a multitude of organizations and your help can truly change lives.
Don’t think too hard about what to do as a random act of kindness, it can be as simple as sending a text of hope to a friend or family member struggling; or smiling at a stranger. Helping others feels so great because it makes you feel needed, inspirational, and impactful. All of which is true of each person, but being truly kind to others in turn helps us be kinder to ourselves, resulting in more positive and hopeful feelings.
10. Get Moving
It can be HARD to get up and go to the gym when it’s so cold outside, and struggling mentally can make it seem like even more of a chore. Even though it’s difficult, moving your body in some way can release positive endorphins in your brain, which can increase your feeling of well-being.
Cardio not really your thing? Don’t worry, really any exercise you do will help you in reaching your goal of feeling better. The exercise could be yoga, stretching, even actively cleaning your home. The overall goal is to get you up and moving while increasing your heart rate a bit. You don’t have to exercise for long either, even 10 or 15 minutes a day can be beneficial.
If going to the gym just seems like too tall a task, there are plenty of awesome, free, exercise apps that you can download and do the workouts right on your living room carpet. Some apps that I’ve tried and enjoy are Sworkit and Daily Workouts. These apps are super easy to use and they make working out easy by showing you how to do the exercise, as well as a built in timer to tell you when to stop.
Working out is something that I really love to do. When I found myself in a bad depression episode, I stop exercising completely because I felt so low. When I started to feel a little better, I began to be self-critical about not doing as much in the gym as I used to or not working out for longer. My advice would be to take things slow, and give yourself some grace if you beat yourself up about not working out as much or as intensely. The fact is, you’re going through something very difficult, and it’s important to not put expectations on yourself during this time; so be gentle with your body and mind!
Actively use these self-care ideas for winter!
Winter is hard enough, and struggling with seasonal affective disorder, depression, or anxiety during the cold months can seem unbearable. It’s important to understand that you are not alone in how you feel; I struggle heavily with mental health myself and so do millions of other people. One thing to have faith in, is that there is hope. There are resources, coping skills, and therapies available to help you.
Most importantly, be kind to yourself, be patient, show yourself compassion, and make yourself and your health a top priority. This difficult time will pass. Whether you decide to eat a little healthier, seek out a therapist, or start a gratitude journal; take active steps to help make your brain a little happier.
Resources:
National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
Hamilton County Recovery Center: 513-241-1411
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Helpline: 1-800-662-4357
Samaritans: 1-877-870-4673
National Hopeline Network: 1-800-442-4673
Veterans Crisis Line: 1-800-273-8255
North Key Crisis Line: 859-331-3292
Hamilton County Crisis Line: 513-281-2273
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